How do you do when your desire doesn’t manifest
Have you sometimes wondered when your desire is going to manifest but nothing happens? How do you stay aligned and high vibe when your desire doesn’t manifest?
In this post I’ll walk you through why it’s happening and what you can do about it. Hang tight!
Frustration when manifesting isn’t working
I get it. It can be so frustrating when you really have something you’d love to manifest into your life, but nothing happens.
You try so hard to do everything right, but still nothing. I hear you. I think that each and everyone have been through this several times.
It’s a common issue, but still so frustrating – right? I can’t blame you! You put so much energy and work into the process and really want it to work. So why doesn’t it? Why doesn’t your desire manifest?
When does my desire manifest?
A question I hear all the time is people asking when their desire is going to manifest. This is a good question but impossible to answer, to be honest. It depends on:
- What you want to manifest
- Your alignment – your vibration
- Your beliefs – do you think you can manifest what you’re asking for?
Think of your manifestation as a seed that you put into the ground. You put it there, in the soil. You cover it with soil and give it some water. It needs light and moist to eventually start to grow.
You aren’t turning up the soil each and every day and checking why the seed isn’t growing or when it’s finished – are you?
No, I guess not.
When you put it into the ground, you nurture it and just let it be.
Your manifestation is exactly the same. It takes time. Let it take the time needed.
Don’t stress on the how or when
If you’ve read my previous blog posts, you know that I always tell you not to stress on the how or when. I say it all the time, and there is a reason for that. It is key to manifesting. It is that important.
If you’re stressing on how or when your desire will manifest, you’re keeping it away from you – effectively. And that is exactly what you don’t want, right?
So when manifesting isn’t working – ask yourself if you’re stressed on the how or when? Make sure you’re not. The seed in the soil won’t grow faster just because you’re asking when it will be fully grown.
What am I doing wrong? Why does’t my desire manifest?
First and foremost, I don’t want you to blame yourself if your manifesting isn’t working. Don’t be so hard on yourself. When your desire doesn’t manifest – it can be because of different things.
It can be that you’re stressed on how or when it will manifest. It can be limiting beliefs that is holding your desire away from you. It can be that you’re focusing on the absence of your desire – which leads to more….absence.
What you focus on will expand, so remember to focus on what you want. Not the opposite.
What can I do to speed up the process?
Is it so important for you to speed up the process? Because if it is, you’re manifesting due to lack of something.
Now I might be repeating myself, but what you’re focusing on will expand. So, if you feel like you’re lacking money – you will keep on attracting lack.
What you can do though, is to feel grateful. Feel grateful for what you have in your life. No matter how your situation looks like.
Also, feel grateful for your desire beforehand. By practicing gratitude (preferably daily) you will raise your vibration, which will eventually boost your manifestation. But hey, don’t stress it!
It’s working for others but not for me!
Manifesting isn’t a comparison game.
You don’t know how other people have been thinking. You don’t know when they put their seed into the soil. You don’t know how their belief system looks like.
We all have different backpacks and different journeys, so don’t put any energy on others manifestations. By comparing yourself with others, you only risking to lower your vibration. And you don’t want that!
Summary – How to do when manifesting isn’t working
- Don’t think of how or when your desire will show up into your reality
- Stop the comparison game. Let others have their journey, don’t compare yourself to others.
- Practice gratitude daily to keep your vibration high.
You can do this!
With love and gratitude,
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